I nicked this shortstory from here . Richard Brodie certainly have some interesting thoughts.
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One
of the cornerstones of Level-3 living is having a life purpose. My life
purpose is the most important priority in my life. I can and do have other
priorities, so in order to accomplish them and be true to myself I need to
arrange my life so that I do them at the same time as I am living my life
purpose.
Suppose
you’re driving down an unfamiliar highway. In the car with you are the people
closest to you. It’s getting late, and you have a long way to go, and you’re
getting hungry. You need to choose a restaurant to stop and have dinner, but
you don’t know what lies ahead. You keep passing restaurants, but none of
them clearly jumps out at you as the place to eat. You want to stop
someplace decent, maybe even the best place possible. How do you decide?
There
is actually a mathematical formula for maximizing your chance of eating at
the best restaurant. If you estimate the total number of restaurants on the
road and divide by e (approximately 2.7), then that is the number of
restaurants you should check out before stopping at the next one that’s better
than any of those. But for this to work, you have to really examine all those
first few restaurants. For instance, if you estimate 81 restaurants on the
highway ahead, you really need to examine those first 30 to give you an
informed choice over the final 51.
Suppose
you live to be 81. The more fully you participate in those first 30 years of
life, the more apparent your life purpose will become when you decide to
uncover it. My life purpose is like a Zagat Guide to the restaurants of life.
It’s a guide that only applies to me. If I’m unclear about my life purpose,
the only way to discover it is by playing hard—fully immersing myself in the
parts of life that attract me. Playing it safe and being a spectator are just
ways of marking time, of passing restaurants without gaining either food or
knowledge.
A
life purpose is not a mission. It is a direction, a priority. It pertains
more to life’s quality than to the quantity of my accomplishments, yet by
being clear about my life purpose I will leave a trail of accomplishment that
I am proud of. A life purpose is not a statement of the way I desire to
contribute to the world. It is my contribution to the world. By
expressing myself fully, I fulfill my place in the world to the betterment of
all those who come in contact with me. But their betterment is not my
purpose.
Living
my life purpose is easy. It requires courage because I must face guilt (an
emotion that indicates I am going against my cultural indoctrination about
how I should be) and resentment (likewise, an emotion indicative of a
violation of cultural programming regarding how others ought to be). It
requires consciousness to maintain focus in the face of life’s attractive
nuisances such as TV, power games, and spectator sports. But it’s easy.
There’s no will power involved in living my life purpose. When I’m
doing it, it feels good and right. I could do it for hours and days on end
and never get tired.
Saying
I don’t have a life purpose is like saying I’m not going to stop at a
restaurant and eat. At the end, I’ll be hungry, frustrated, and more confused
than ever. Pick a place.
From:Richard Brodie, http://www.memecentral.com/L3Restaurant.htm
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