Ten actions that are guaranteed to motivate you!

Motivation

 
Life is filled with experiences that take you up to the highest hills, and down into the deepest caves. And I am no different. These are the ten things I do when I need to dig myself out of a cave, or use as a parachute when I tumble down from the highest mountain! 
 
 
 
 
 
10: Music
 
 
Music is claimed to origin from the rhythms of nature. From the wind sweeping over the sea, over the rocks, hailing through the forest. From birds singing, wolfs crying. From the shifts of nature that bangs on constantly, silently, wild, endlessly. The first humans gathered the rhythms using drums, sticks and hauling. Over the years the rhythms has evolved and refined itself, creating music. 
 
Music is energy. Refined, redefined energy. It surrounds us. And it controls our emotions. You can easily control your moods by the type of music you listen to – happy, sad, energetic, lazy, strong, angry. And if you use music consciously, you can learn to control your moods and create your own motivating playlist. 
 
Your playlist can be used for many things – from working out, helping you reach your goals, getting you up in the morning, helping you relax, getting you “in da mood” – you name it, the right kind of music will do the trick!
 
 
9: Coffee shop
 
Many of us have stressful lives. Usually this is simply because we create a full agenda, with no breaks in it. There is no room for YOU in your daily life. So you postpone YOU until next vacation, or worse – until you retire. 
 
When in need of a motivation boost, schedule a meeting with YOU in your calendar, and go to your favorite coffee shop, restaurant or bakery. Order your favorite drink, and perhaps something to eat too. When in Oslo, I would go to Coffi, and have a Chai Latte with a carrot cake. Yummy! It really makes me tickle again! 
 
When doing this appointment with YOU, try to shut off your phone, and leave your computer behind. Bring a book, or even better a sketch book. Just sit there with the book and a pencil, type or draw whatever comes to mind! 
 
When you feel re-energized, go back to your busy life again! 
 
 
8: A gift to yourself
 
 

Gift

This goes a bit with tip #2, making sure you see YOU in your busy life. Gifts are great motivators, and can be a huge boost. There are many ways of giving yourself gifts – from setting goals and giving yourself something to celebrate. Or just deciding that “I did so good today, I will get a gift!” Or my personal favorite – use a timing device online, and send yourself a reminder of something great you did. Just make the system send it in a month, a year or in a decade! 
 
Getting that kind of attention – from YOU – is a real boost and is sure to give you back your motivation! 
 
 
7: Bag of sweets
 
No, this is not about chocolate and sugary sweets. A bag of sweets is something totally different – it is a collection of feedback you have received from other people over the years, plus your own success’. 
 
I keep a large bag of sweets, small notes I have gotten at conferences, trainings and travels, as well through email, online collaborations etc. I simply print them out, and keep them in my Bag of sweets. I also include photos of special people and events that I truly appreciated. 
 
When I am a bit sad, or question my own abilities, which I sometimes do, I grab my Bag of sweets and start reading the small notes of appreciation and praise other people have given me over the years. This makes me feel good, confident and able again. It is a huge boost of my motivation!
 
 
6: Workout
 
Your mental condition is directly connected to your physical wellbeing according to several studies. Your body is an organism that needs constant attention, much like a car. It will stop working if you run out of fuel (thus make sure to eat and drink), if you fail to change oil, check the tire pressure and other maintenance tasks. 
 
In the early days – before the Knowledge worker – our bodies got to move around all day – laboring on the fields, in the forests, factories. These activities kept the body sharp, and the mind sharp too. Yes, I admit, it is unlikely that they needed their brain to be as active as you do in your job. Still, being physical adept, they had the power and energy to stay well and feel well.
 
So the next times you struggle to find motivation consider go to the gym, or grab your sneakers and go for a run around the park or bloc. 30 minutes cardio training really gets your pump pushing blood in your veins, feeding your brain with oxygen and endorfines. Along comes motivation and wellbeing! 
 
Feeling down? Get out of the coach now and get your heart pumping!
 
 
5: Disconnect it all
 
When your brain is about to explode, when you feel you loose control, when the world is tumbling down around you, all that is happening is uncertainty of yourself. Your brain is telling you that it has no control and that you are about to fail. 
 
At this point, I sometimes find the need to disconnect. What I mean by disconnect is to take a break from it all – leaving the computer, phones, MP3, the works, everything behind. I free my mind. Depending on where I am, I may find myself a spot on the grass, a bench in the park, or just lay down on my bed. It does not really matter – except I usually have to leave the room where I met the challenge. 
 
When I sit on that bench in the park, all by myself, I just look out in the air, not focusing on anything, just letting my mind take off in whatever direction it wants to. I do not control my thoughts directly, I accept that they are there, after a short observation of the thought. And what I find is that as soon as I have observed the thought, and accepted it, it tends to go away. I believe this is because I just let it flow by, I do not try to follow it, nor do I try to control it.  
 
At some point – sometimes minutes, other times longer – it seems that my brain just shuts down its word thinking process, and starts to relax. At this point, I usually feel a relaxation filling my body, along with a joyfulness that is hard to describe. At this time, you can usually see me sitting there, looking out in the air, smiling at something you cannot see. 
 
Some find this same freedom in prayers, some in meditation, and others when concentrating very hard – like when climbing on a crux, or doing sports on a high level. You may need to experiment a while to find the thing that works for you. When you find it, you know how to get back there, and the more you practice it, the better resource it will become for you!
 
 
4: Dance
 
Just like music above, dancing is a way to tap into the rhythms of nature. The main difference is that when dancing, your whole body is moving along, enhancing the experience, and making stronger results, better connections. 
 
I do not care too much where and when I dance – when I need motivation, I may put on some music - on my speakers, my iPod or just in my mind – and then I move my body along to the rhythms. I can be seen doing this on the streets, in an elevator, on stage before my shows, and on the dance floor after my performance. I find dancing to be a great way to create motivation, to stress down, and to connect with my own self.
 
As a bonus, dancing is a great way to enhance your connection to other people too. If you have ever danced with someone you love, or someone who loves you, you know exactly what I mean! Again, this releases endorphins to your body, making you feel good! And feeling good is the best motivation there is!
 
 
3: Nature
 
 

Nature!

The more urban we become, the more detached we become from the nature. When was the last time you went out to a wild forest, to a high mountain or just some remote location by the sea? No matter what your preference, nature has a special rhythm, a way of communication that speaks directly to our mind and body.  
 
Anyone who has spent any amount of time in the nature – hunting, hiking, biking, camping – instantly recognize the power of the nature. How it soothes your mind, relaxes your soul and releases your stress. To harvest this power of nature, all you have to do is put on some comfortable clothes and just start walking. As soon as you leave the city behind, and let you engulf by the sounds (or silence) of nature, you can find somewhere to sit down and just enjoy the peace and harmony. 
 
Take in the view. The colors that surrounds you. The harmony. Just let it flow around and let your mind drift. 
 
While there, consider your breath. Suck air through your nose, and release it slowly through your mouth. Feel the air filling your lungs. Taste it. Try to figure out what it tastes, what it smells. Dirt? Animals? Leaves? 
 
Enjoy the peace in that moment. Try to save it somewhere, where you can find it and remember it when you are back in the busy life again. 
 
I find that I get a lot of new ideas and strength to move on when I do this exercise. And this energy I bring with me, like a charged battery. I can then tap into this energy at will, when needed. 
 
 
2: Friends
 
To me, friends are the second best place to find motivation. No matter what I am up to, no matter what I should be solving, I have friends who can and will inspire me. 
 
The trick to using friends as a motivation is to know your friends. The better you know them, the easier it gets to identify the one(s) who can give the right kind of motivation. Of course, this is not something about abusing your friends; it is a mutually beneficial relationship, where you are an inspiration and motivation to them some times, and vice versa. 
 
Depending on what I need, I call upon a friend in the business area of what I need motivation for – being trainings, creativity, security, computers, life in general – anything, and invite him or her on a lunch or dinner. When we get there, we just talk normally and discuss whatever topic I need help for. The solution may not be provided there and then, but the ideas and information that are discussed over that meal is a huge boost to my motivation, and then towards the solution I am looking for. 
 
As a great bonus, the friendship grows and prospers as we recognize the other person’s needs and knowledge. And by meeting face to face in a busy world, we also get the bonus of breaking off of our normal path. 
 
So knowing your friends and what they care about can be a great boost to your motivation – if you allow yourself to tap into that great resource!
 
 
1: Family
 
To me, my family is the top spot of motivation. No matter what I need, my family will give it to me. Blood is thicker than water, they say, and I find it to be true.
 
I come from a big family, with many sisters and brothers, uncles and aunts, and they are all resourceful. That also means that they are all quite busy. But they always have time for a pep-talk with another family member. 
 
I got this confirmed to me during my accident. Suddenly, all my family put down what they where doing, and came to see me. Offering help. Comforting me, and the other members of the family. I believe that crisis can make people – and connections between people – stronger. Especially when looking at a family, this becomes obvious. The challenge to some can be to accept that hand your family is readily offering you. 
 
And a crime many of us do is to give our family little time during everyday life. It takes only a very small investment of time and effort to call your parents and say hi. To check in with your brother once in a while, and to ask your sister how she’s been doing lately. And organizing a family get-together is no more of an effort than any BBQ party, yet amazingly appreciated. 
 
Remember that your family is your strongest ties. Your parents will always love you, no matter what you do. Your kids love you unconditionally. Respect it, nurture it and harvest the power of your family when you need motivation!
 
 
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Did you like these tips? Do you have other preferred ways of finding motivation? What do you do to get you back up from the down-hills of life? Please share your thoughts in the comments!
 
 

Nature is my first choice to

Nature is my first choice to motivate me in any ways.

Sample is in my essay writing.

In nature you can find peace and harmony, the surroundings were the power of nature can really motivate you...

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For et flott blogginnlegg!
Finner etter lange kjipe perioder at det er enklere å lage en liste over umotiverende ting, så det er fint å se at noen fortsatt tenker i riktig retning! :-D

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